Don't worry. Simply keep those feelings company, and don't try to get too in your head about it. If you do want to get to the bottom of why you feel the way you do about self-fingering, Smith says that better sex education may help combat a lack of sexual or anatomical knowledge. Consider therapy.
That said, some folks might need therapy to unpack the deep-seated shame they carry. Hercman agrees that having a therapeutic space that feels safe to explore one's background, sexual experiences, fears, traumas, and anxieties can be a big help. Just be sure to find a trauma-informed sex therapist, if that's an avenue you'd consider exploring.
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By Morgan Mandriota. Comments 1. Sort by: Newest. Newest Oldest. Load More Comments. Close this dialog window Add a comment. Add your comment Cancel Submit. Close this dialog window Review for. Back to story Comment on this project. Tell us what you think Thanks for adding your feedback. Re: How to finger your vagina by yourself Unread post by hotcoco » Thu Feb 14, pm I want to say, I don't trust anyone with that because I have been raped, sexually assaulted and molested.
It's not surprising that you find it hard to trust other people sexually right now. I hope that you know it is not your fault - are you safely away from the person or people who did this to you now?
Is there anything we can do to support you? Would you like to talk about it more? Re: How to finger your vagina by yourself Unread post by hotcoco » Fri Feb 15, pm Sorry I was at school. Yes I am safe and sure I'll talk more! I'de be more than happy to share my story on here for every one to see! Re: How to finger your vagina by yourself Unread post by Mo » Fri Feb 15, pm If it would feel helpful for you to talk about it, you're welcome to!
Mostly we want to make sure we're giving you support around that assault if that's something you'd like us to help with. Re: How to finger your vagina by yourself Unread post by hotcoco » Fri Feb 15, pm It is something I want support with! What kind of support could we offer to best help you right now? For example, we could help you connect with resources or information, or we could let this be a space for you to process what happened or something else entirely ,.
Re: How to finger your vagina by yourself Unread post by hotcoco » Wed Feb 20, pm A space to let me share, process and get support for what happened, if that's ok.
I'm happy this is somewhere that feels safe to do that! Don't see why they call it lonesome. I'm never lonesome when I go there. Why does fingering myself hurt? Just FYI, when your profile says one age but you post with another it can make things pretty confusing for us.
If you could let us know which age for you is actually correct, that'd be great. It's very normal for people of all ages to masturbate or explore masturbation, and that usually does involve people touching their genitals.
More often than not, whether it's alone or with a partner, just using fingers or anything else inside the vagina, and not doing anything else doesn't feel like much or that great for people because the vagina isn't the area of that system of genitals where the most sensory nerve endings are.
Depending on your insurance plan, a prescription may enable you to get the medication at little to no cost. Your doctor must place this device, so a timely appointment is necessary. Once in place, the IUD will protect against pregnancy for up to 10 years. If you think you may be pregnant, take an at-home pregnancy test.
The test may be most accurate a week after your missed period. You should see your doctor to confirm the results of your home pregnancy test. They may use a blood test, a urine test, or both to confirm your results. Whatever the outcome, your doctor can advise you on next steps. This may include options for family planning or birth control. EC is most effective within three to five days of possible fertilization.
They can answer any questions that you have and advise you on what to do next. Learn about emergency contraception, including what to do and what to expect afterward.
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